Eat In

Tonight we had the neighbors over for dinner.  I cooked up some ribs, and they brought a wonderful pasta salad.  We shared stories and heartache.   Good times.  I hope we get to meet with Eric and Cynthia again.  

This highlights the frugal lifestyle.  We meat Eric when we fixed our mailboxes together.  Eric suggested we get together, we scheduled it for this week.  It was a great time and cost me two rack of ribs, and a bottle of tequila. It was good getting to know them.

Much better than meeting at a restaurant or similar.  Much more intimate. We all have social needs and the desire to get to know others.  However this doesn't mean frugality needs to be set aside.  I make a mean rack of ribs. And Cynthia clearly makes a mean potato salad.  Clearly frugality and fellowship won the day!

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